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Free Counselling Can Help Take Pressure Off When You Need It Most
Raise your
hand if you’ve ever gone for counselling. What’s that I see? Arms still planted
firmly at your sides? Hopefully your life is so trouble-free you’ve never had
to reach out for help. Or is it that, like most of us, you’d rather admit to
inhaling marijuana than having sought assistance for your problems? More likely
it’s because you’ve never heard of your Employee Assistance Program (EAP).
In fact,
EAP may be the least advertised perk in the world of workplace health.
Essentially it’s access to a free, fully-credentialed counsellor or
professional to assist you with your life/work stresses. Your company pays for
it (if they’re a subscriber), but the service is 100% confidential and your
employer will never know you’ve used it.
I can
personally
attest to its effectiveness. Years ago, my work began to suffer when a slew of
outside crises hit at once: a dying parent, a deteriorating marriage, and
career turmoil. Trying stuff, all. As I neared my breaking point I confided
anxiously to a colleague. She gave me the number to our company’s EAP
hotline—which I called immediately.
Within
moments I was speaking to someone helpful. They listened patiently to my
situation, then set me up with one of their licensed therapists. By the end of the six complimentary sessions
I was starting to get matters in hand.
Nowadays
EAP is about more than just emergency advice. Gerry
Smith is Vice President, Organizational Health at Warren Shepell, one of
Canada’s leading EAP providers. He tells me that “10 years ago 95% of our work
was face to face intervention for emotional and personal difficulties. Today, more
than 25% is worklife services, including access to a nutritionist, lawyer,
financial advisor, nurse line, elder and child care, adoption etc.”
With all
that EAP has to offer, you’d think that everyone would know about it and use
it. Not so.
Even though
thousands of companies offer the service as a benefit to their employees,
utilization rates across the country languish in the range of just 4 to 8%.
Why should
that be? A couple of reasons dominate. For instance, “The stigma of counselling
is still a deterrent to many people,” says Tony Colangelo, Vice President & Business Leader, Employee Assistance Programs & WorkLife Solution Services at FGI, another major Canadian EAP.
While this is less so for the under 40 crowd, many boomers still
associate reaching out for help with admitting weakness.
Colangelo
encourages people to look at EAP proactively. “It definitely doesn’t mean that there’s
something wrong with you. On the contrary, when you have issues, you can seek
EAP as your own personal consultant to get alternate views.”
FGI has
also expanded from traditional counselling. Adds Colangelo, “We’ve broadened
our programs to address concerns before they become severe problems. It’s part
of the trend to go preventative, like our depression care system that shows
people their susceptibility and helps them take steps to ward off further
stress.”
Another barrier
to Employee Assistance usage is the lack of awareness that the programs are
even available. “That’s because companies encourage EAP’s to keep the base
utilization rate down by restricting how they market themselves to end-users,”
says Smith. It’s a cost saving measure that, in my
mind, is like shooting yourself in the foot. Better to have healthy employees
and make up the expense of EAP in productivity gains and reduced absenteeism.
So if you
want to find out if your company subscribes, what do you do? Check your
employee manual or the company’s intranet site where it describes the benefits
available to staff.
Otherwise,
you may never know about it. Once you do though, making
use of EAP is easier than ever. “You don’t even have to leave your home anymore,”
says Colangelo. “You can access us via e-counselling
too. This includes telephone, or secure e-mail and self-help info on our web
site.”
Mind you,
there’s one other crucial barrier to accessing EAP: the fear of getting outed.
I remember being terrified that my boss would learn I was a user. The shame of
appearing frail in a corporate setting was all too real.
Smith, author of Work Rage (Harper Collins Canada), wants
to put any fears you may have of getting exposed to rest. “Confidentiality is
the cornerstone of our business. Without it, no one would use us.”
With that
in mind, he offers the following assurances:
-when you
come for an appointment, no one else from your organization will be there.
-we can’t
even confirm to the employer if you’ve contacted us.
-filing is completely
private: only essential, authorized people have access to systems.
-we never
release details of names or addresses to your anyone, unless absolutely
required by law (for instance, if you’re suicidal or imminently harmful to yourself
or others).
-we never give
out files to anyone but the client, and only then with a written request and
I.D.
Want to
play it even safer? Unlike me, don’t call your EAP from the office, or scour
their website using your employer’s computer. That way no one can track what
you’re doing.
Ultimately
you may find, as I did, that a few conversations with a caring professional can
give you a new perspective. If not, your EAP can refer you to local resources
if an extended intervention is necessary.
It would be
great if, eventually, everyone who needed a helping hand could make use of an
EAP. If you happen to be a manager or supervisor, please take note of Smith’s
advice: “Each employee in a position of responsibility should trumpet this
useful resource, becoming an ambassador for a service that truly makes a
difference.” And as Colangelo states simply, “being able to reach out for help
is the most important thing.”