Dear Mark:
I worked in sales at the same company for 19 years earning an average
of $115,000/year the last six years. I want a less stress job which
earns about $50K, since I need to have more time with the kids. How do
I convince an employer that I will be happy at lower pay and less
stressful environment, without telling them my issues at home?
-- Martha O., Montreal, Quebec
Dear Martha,
Isn't it such a shame that we live in a world where
even top notch employees, with a track record of adding value, feel
that they must apologize for wanting to have a life outside of work?
The issue you're bringing to light here applies to
employees of all ages and genders. You would think that once you've
proven yourself and are competent in your field, you could start to
pick and choose the assignments you take on, and how much life balance
you incorporate into your work week.
Thank goodness there are options. For instance, there
are plenty of companies who offer flexible hours and telecommuting
policies. In the former, employees are able to shift their work hours
around to some degree in order to take into account outside
commitments. As for the latter, this is where employees work from home
for either the full week or a portion thereof.
Even if you're already in a job and want to cut back
without quitting, there are alternatives to explore. In your own case,
Martha, had you considered asking your most recent employer if they
would accommodate you in one, or both, of the above mentioned ways? And
if they weren't able to, perhaps you might have requested scaling back
to less than full-time, for instance three days a week (or maybe
mornings or afternoons only). This might have involved some heavy-duty
juggling at first. And you could likely expect to have your pay
pro-rated accordingly (e.g. if you work four days a week, you might
earn 80% of a full-timer's salary).
Another way to have reduced your hours is to ask for a
step downward in terms of job responsibilities. Maybe some up and
coming, super hungry co-worker would have happily taken a few of your
existing accounts off your hands, leaving you to focus on your
established client relationships that take less time to nurture.
Mind you, revealing to an employer that you want to
step off the fast track after you've set expectations otherwise comes
with built-in risks. So you would have had to be prepared to find
another job if they'd refused your requests.
As for your next employer, given your strong sales
history and assuming you have decent references, there are plenty of
other places who might be glad to have you on the terms you've
described. No need to mention particulars when interviewing, other than
to say that you are devoted to your work, and will continue to be so -
only now you want to spend the other 50% of your week with
your children. There are enough enlightened firms out there that you
should ultimately be able to find a place for yourself